That sounds really exhausting... I got tons of matches on Tinder, quite a lot of dates and hook ups, and relationships. I'm passably attractive but nothing muc

That sounds really exhausting... I got tons of matches on Tinder, quite a lot of dates and hook ups, and relationships. I'm passably attractive but nothing much, just above average. I wrote something a little funny in my bio, put up pictures that aren't: in the gym, fishing, driving a car, smiling while standing at some random place, hiking. What I had was pictures of me having fun, not "expected fun" but where I really enjoyed myself, some extremely silly. And a portrait so people could know exactly what I looked like. I found two long-time partners and a lot of very fun and interesting dates. I think it worked because I was just genuine and honestly meeting people who I had a conversation that clicked. Don't think I could ever overthink this that much...