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After I turned 50 I mentioned to my Mom that I still felt like I was in my early 20s. She said she felt the exact same way, despite being in her 70s. That was t
by irrational 4y ago
After I turned 50 I mentioned to my Mom that I still felt like I was in my early 20s. She said she felt the exact same way, despite being in her 70s. That was the first time I realized that the discrepancy between how old you are and how old you think you are might be universal.
It also made me wonder if this might be why surveys show that in general men prefer women who are in their early 20s. Perhaps men are basing it off of how old they feel (so they are the same age as the women they are seeking) rather than how old they are. Of course, the same surveys show that in general women prefer men near their own actual age. Perhaps women base it off of how old they are rather than how old the think they are. I have no idea if the above has any basis in reality. It’s just a “I wonder…”
- zeroonetwothree 4y agoI would assume it’s more of a biology thing because women under 30 are more fertile. We evolved to prefer those markers that signify that age. Of course not all men have this preference etc etc
- gabereiser 4y agoI completely agree but I also think it’s a little bit of ugg. Have you seen the people 40+ on dating apps or online? It’s definitely a flea market.
- Hyption 4y ago[flagged]