I'm thinking about setting up a private instance for myself and my friends, plus the people I meet online through different, more personal channels, like 1:1 ca

I'm thinking about setting up a private instance for myself and my friends, plus the people I meet online through different, more personal channels, like 1:1 calls and rants via my Calendly. Another reason is that not using hay@potato.horse as my handle feels like a missed opportunity.