> That is my problem, not yours. It has become theirs. Because if it's a problem in the first place, and they start to notice it, and care enough to voice up

> That is my problem, not yours. It has become theirs. Because if it's a problem in the first place, and they start to notice it, and care enough to voice up about it, it means it's become frequent enough that you seem not to have done/said something about it. Their reaction is not about you. It's about the environment in which they understand they operate. Their options are: care about it, not care about it, leave for a better environment.