not just "a man" but Paul Muad'ib. and he doesn't so much gain a wife as take responsibility for looking after her. and he didn't want to kill the guy at all.

not just "a man" but Paul Muad'ib. and he doesn't so much gain a wife as take responsibility for looking after her. and he didn't want to kill the guy at all. this is all because he had to fit in with the culture of the fremen tribe he had just joined.