Slightly off-topic, but I'm curious if anyone knows the best established way to accept payment for items sold+shipped through sites like ebay. I've heard enoug

Slightly off-topic, but I'm curious if anyone knows the best established way to accept payment for items sold+shipped through sites like ebay. I've heard enough horror stories from sellers claiming they'd shipped items only to have the buyer falsely claim it never arrived or wasn't what was advertised to get reimbursed/chargeback, and never return the item or return a box of rocks. This has prevented me from selling anything online outside of in-person CL sales for over a decade now. Ages ago I sold many things on ebay that were shipped without difficulty, accepting paypal, none of this fuckery, but times have changed. Is there a safe way to do this sort of business as a seller today? It really sucks to not have access to the broader market for selling some niche items, esp. in my rural region w/low population density.