> I have, in my younger years, where all the non-geeks seemed to have satisfying social lives and I didn't. Note that while I agree that autists are often iso

> I have, in my younger years, where all the non-geeks seemed to have satisfying social lives and I didn't. Note that while I agree that autists are often isolated, the phenomenon you described exists for neurotypicals too. It's the social network paradox: most of your friends will have more friends than you. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Friendship_paradox https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Friendship_paradox