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I consider digitization in general to be destroying mental health. Social media, delivery services, dating using an app, virtual working, the list goes on. They
by fleddr 4y ago
I consider digitization in general to be destroying mental health. Social media, delivery services, dating using an app, virtual working, the list goes on. They create a touchless society where we no longer connect with real people and barely interact with the physical world.
The price of this convenience is very high. Surely this can't be good for us.
The difference between girls and boys are interesting. From my casual experience, I have a lot of friends with teenage boys, a distinct pattern can be seen.
Almost all of them are gamers. That's their main digital channel. Many don't give a shit about social media and some don't even have any account at all. Nothing public anyway, just some basic chat account. As they game, they can at times be toxic and competitive, but that's "part of the game", they don't take it very serious at all.
Likewise, none of them seem to care much about stacking each other by looks, the typical male trait of physical strength, or wealth. Surely, some of this is always present in the background, but it's all in a lax "it is what it is" vibe. Their main issue/challenge seems to be gaming addiction and how this comes at the expense of other aspects of their lives (sleep, school performance, physical exercise, socializing with girls).
Also noteworthy: not politicized. Most don't seem to have much of an opinion on anything. Pure indifference.
The teenage girls are so radically different. They don't game, they're literally self-imaging non-stop. Constantly recording themselves, watching influencer videos, gossiping on chat, stacking and ranking each other. Unlike a gaming addiction (which is fixable), their success or failure is existential.
I would imagine that both tendencies between both and girls have always been there, it's just that they were naturally constrained by the physical world. Social media made it limitless.