More like at most 2 years of drastically altered lifestyle, after that you just send them to a daycare and go to work and then at home they are able to walk, ta

More like at most 2 years of drastically altered lifestyle, after that you just send them to a daycare and go to work and then at home they are able to walk, talk and eat by themselves and you can get a babysitter and go on a date. For these 2 years we have to be grown up about existence of reproductive dimorphism, most obviously breastfeeding but also fathers and their children learning parenting relationship as an acquired skill rather than instinct. Rather than demanding that there is no statistical difference between life paths of men and women, how about respecting both equally? Why is being a cog in corporate machine inherently more worthy of respect or life meaning than taking care of your own family? If this is considered equally desirable, more fathers will also be interested. Plus there is now remote work and robots/AI are taking our jobs, so why is this even a big deal?