I meant the question more personally. Where do you feel pressured to have no/more kids? I mean yes, there are sensible arguments on either side. But it sounded

I meant the question more personally. Where do you feel pressured to have no/more kids? I mean yes, there are sensible arguments on either side. But it sounded like we are getting pressured to have more/less children. And that we was what I tried to get at. It sounds egoistic, but on very personal matters I don't like to listen to the ominous blob of internet opinions we all contribute to. And you should too.. I have seen some of my own comments and would be very ashamed if someone took it as literal advice/imperative.