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False. I do go out on weekends and approach women. Respectfully. While having basic hygiene and grooming and tasteful clothing. And I'm financially autonomous.

by moss2 4y ago

False. I do go out on weekends and approach women. Respectfully. While having basic hygiene and grooming and tasteful clothing. And I'm financially autonomous. And I work out regularly. And have a social circle. I'm perfectly average looking. All that gets me is friends. Loads of friends. Women who I share a conversation with and have a laugh with. Never any attraction or meeting up at a later date. Don't speak confidently about subjects you know nothing about.

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mikrl 4y ago
>All that gets me is friends Are you signalling that you’re looking for friends or partners? IME women don’t react well to crudeness or excessive directness but with a silver tongue you can flower up “hi I’d like to escalate” and as long as you are clear (by ‘clear’ I mean with an amount of sexy deniability) then that will act as a quick filter. Plus it takes cojones, which women also enjoy (IME YMMV IANAW)
- hnfong 4y ago
  Pile on even more "requirements" (things to do to increase one's chances) and you're proving the GP's point.