Exactly my experience: 1. ask a question isolating and narrowing down my issue as good as I can 2. marked as a duplicate providing a link with an issue, which

Exactly my experience: 1. ask a question isolating and narrowing down my issue as good as I can 2. marked as a duplicate providing a link with an issue, which is loosely related, but does not solve my problem 3. start explaining / defending in comments why question is not a dupe 4. stays marked as dupe 5. give up and feel disappointed for the time and effort investment