After a divorce I also discovered that text communicates a large part of who someone is. I would put off having a date until I was having very enjoyable conver

After a divorce I also discovered that text communicates a large part of who someone is. I would put off having a date until I was having very enjoyable conversations with someone for a month or so. I went on several dates and every one was great. Really great. After that I didn’t need the site. I know people have all kinds of bad experiences in dating, but from what I can tell, many people skip the critical “get to know you well by text” phase. That weeded out dozens of seemingly promising connections that eventually fizzled before any physical meeting.