> "You've got to put yourself first". This doesn't mean "take the highest offer", it means putting yourself first. In your situation, going back to your boss w

> "You've got to put yourself first". This doesn't mean "take the highest offer", it means putting yourself first. In your situation, going back to your boss was clearly an ask to stay because that was what you wanted. It's possible to be comfortable and content with your work and your job, and to prioritize that over chasing more money too.