I was pretty much like this for a long time, 1 / 10 would not recommend. For me the change was gradual but basically it was a couple of realizations revolving a

I was pretty much like this for a long time, 1 / 10 would not recommend. For me the change was gradual but basically it was a couple of realizations revolving around separating my identity from my career and finding personal stuff I'd rather pour my emotional energy into, instead of pouring it to fight my employer to do things I thought they should be wanting me to do.