I stopped pursuing it. I'm married and have a child now, so I guess that approach worked for me. Don't date, don't search, don't lok. Be a whole and complete p

I stopped pursuing it. I'm married and have a child now, so I guess that approach worked for me. Don't date, don't search, don't lok. Be a whole and complete person by yourself, and enjoy your life on your own terms. If you're a person who functions well without anyone, you're a million times more attractive, and in an honest way (you can always make someone fall in love with some false projection of you, but this is not what you want, since you can't comfortably be anyone but who you are for any real amount of time).