I’d normally ask you (or anyone else reading and relating) whether you are also habitually late, have difficulty organising (things/items, thoughts, life) but I

I’d normally ask you (or anyone else reading and relating) whether you are also habitually late, have difficulty organising (things/items, thoughts, life) but I’m moderately sure the answer is yes. The “good” news is you probably have A(D)HD (Good because an adhd diagnosis is generally helpful - you had it but struggled all your life without knowing why, now you know it’s not your fault). The not so great part is I haven’t figured out how to fix it so I can’t answer that lol (also adhd myself). Meds can hep but only to some extent, though med + therapy + healthy habits might be very effective. To OP - go to your doc/gp and ask for an adhd evaluation. (I’m normally very cautious with medical suggestions online but tbh this reads like a classic case of adhd to my moderately-well read self. If any medical professionals/folks who are aware of this field/fellow ADHDers want to chime in/correct me, please do!)