The pattern: It's a fucking $X and they $Y Idiomatically signifies exasperated frustration/anger in many contexts. My entire comment was just a play on words,

The pattern: It's a fucking $X and they $Y Idiomatically signifies exasperated frustration/anger in many contexts. My entire comment was just a play on words, pointing out that the word "fucking" means "having sex" (i know it's one of those words with a ton of shades and nuance so there are lots of uses for it but for the play on words, let's be literal - also easier when the context is sexual to begin with). When read in that light - "a having sex pleading face and they made it about sexual roles" is amusing, no?