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Queer people. This is an easily-inferred reference for anyone who's decently-good friends with at least one gay guy or lesbian.

• bhaney 4y ago
  I have a handful of very close friends who are gay, but I've never heard of this bottom-face emoji thing before today. And I'm a little concerned why not knowing about something that seems like an esoteric piece of fetish-related in-group communication implies that I don't hang out with queer people? Is there an expectation that in order to hang out with people belonging to some group, I need to learn specific lingo regarding that group's sexual power dynamics?
  • justincredible 4y ago
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  • mplewis 4y ago
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    • Tozen 4y ago
      That's comes off as kind of unfair and misplaced, when a person is not of nor participates in activities common to a particular group. We may only see or know of a particular side of a person. We can see people, in certain settings for many years, yet not know various things about them or they don't show aspects or share various details about themselves. It's one thing to ask or expect others to be open-minded or have empathy for things outside of their regular circles, it's another to presume they must know details about cultures and subcultures they aren't apart of or even condemn them for genuinely not knowing about something or asking. It's alright to not know about everything, as nobody does, and ask questions as they come up. For those concerned, they can explain the history, details, or their views. It's a normal process of learning.
  • bigbottomenergy 4y ago
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• deleted 4y ago
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