Take some time to think about this: > I've worked hard. I haven't had a vacation or day off in years. (...) My life is wake up, code, sleep. > When she's done

Take some time to think about this: > I've worked hard. I haven't had a vacation or day off in years. (...) My life is wake up, code, sleep. > When she's done with her day, she goes to play cards with her other friends. In order of importance, I feel that that you would benefit the most from speaking to your wife, a psychiatrist, a marriage counselor and possibly a lawyer. Not knowing you personally it is difficult to ascertain your mental state but if your writeup is any indication, you really, really need some time off; not a new startup.