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>> Some people just need to harden the f** up and quit catastrophizing every little thing. You assume that this is simply a matter a making a decision and acti
by tanseydavid 4y ago
>> Some people just need to harden the f** up and quit catastrophizing every little thing.
You assume that this is simply a matter a making a decision and acting on it -- which for you may be true.
There are others that will find this difficult-to-impossible to achieve regardless of their intellectual desire to change. Their experience of anxiety may not be a result of "catastrophizing" or "being soft."
- wara23arish 4y agoIm not trying to be argumentative, but at that point is this behavior worth encouraging? I guess whose fault is it but their own? We can all blame our upbringing and it definitely does affect us, but how else can you change the cycle without telling someone to snap out of it ?
- Apocryphon 4y agoSometimes it takes tough love, sometimes it takes nurturing and understanding, sometimes it takes a blend of the two, sometimes it takes an entirely different track.