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I don't know about you but I find being alone in quiet distressing and I tend to, for example, listen to a podcast just to fill the void and feel like I'm at le
by retrac 4y ago
I don't know about you but I find being alone in quiet distressing and I tend to, for example, listen to a podcast just to fill the void and feel like I'm at least passively absorbing something.
But long stretches of silence are the human norm. Even in social situations. I've found when I'm literally spending all day with someone, with no media to distract, that the conversation will have long lulls in it. I think I first noticed it when I went fishing with my boyfriend. Stretches of quiet that will go on for ten minutes until one of us thought of something worth saying, then some lively talk, then quiet again. And that was okay!
Does the thought of such stretches of emptiness fill you with dread? It usually does for me. I think that's where my own information addiction comes from. It relieves that discomforting sensation. But I have come to believe such experiences are essential to mental health, from time to time. I'm ill at ease with my own thoughts.
If this sounds familiar in some way, I suggest prayer and/or meditation. Though if you want a more practical prescription, take a long walk daily without your phone, in a quiet area.