I either use a website I built that subscribes to a host of RSS feeds (https://datente.com https://datente.com), or find stuff via friends' links on LI/Twitter/

I either use a website I built that subscribes to a host of RSS feeds (https://datente.com https://datente.com), or find stuff via friends' links on LI/Twitter/Facebook (and then add 'good' sources to my Twitter followers, or RSS aggregator), or from HN (and then add to Twitter or RSS), or from people sending me texts/IMs