I am currently in a similar situation after a messy breakup (relationship of 8 years). I am unable to concentrate or to get my sh*t together. I just hope to get

I am currently in a similar situation after a messy breakup (relationship of 8 years). I am unable to concentrate or to get my sh*t together. I just hope to get back on my feet soon enough. I had my side project running and I was a respected SWE in my field. Now I can barely survive the day. I think for me working out is doing the magic and avoiding being alone for too long.