My comment will not help the OP based on what they are looking for. For others who don’t like standard gyms there are many types of gyms that have very differe

My comment will not help the OP based on what they are looking for. For others who don’t like standard gyms there are many types of gyms that have very different vibes. CrossFit, Starting Strength, and Brazilian Jujitsu come to mind quickly. These I have found are much more social and supportive than the standard gym format.