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> "Of course I'm not anti-thinking but it's very difficult to express yourself (in most media, but especially talking) if you hesitate constantly." I vehementl
by potatolicious 15y ago
> "Of course I'm not anti-thinking but it's very difficult to express yourself (in most media, but especially talking) if you hesitate constantly."
I vehemently disagree - some of my most respected people in life pause frequently while speaking, and will directly ask for a moment when questioned about something, to collect their thoughts. I give these people's words incredible weight in my life not just because I respect them as people, but knowing that what they're telling me is well considered instead of knee-jerk.
I think the social expectation of having an answer at the drop of a hat on anything is pretty unfortunate, and makes us all a little bit dumber.
- brendan10211 15y agoThat's why I like to type my responses, because they don't see it anyway until I press enter or whatever.
- sp332 15y ago> having an answer at the drop of a hat on anything I don't mean in a debate, or even being asked a question. I just mean having a conversation, small talk etc.