> My original comment was in agreement with the poster I was replying to, and I was adding nuance and finding common ground in a semi-shared experience. Do you

> My original comment was in agreement with the poster I was replying to, and I was adding nuance and finding common ground in a semi-shared experience. Do you genuinely not see how "adding nuance" to a "semi-shared experience" is taking the focus away from the parent commenter's experience? When someone is recounting racism they suffered, how is adding "other people experienced other kinds of hate" adding any nuance? Do you genuinely believe that there's valuable common ground between, for example, a black person being called the n-word and another person who isn't black being called the n-word or some other slur?