Australia here. It's the same as you described. If you don't go with option X then you clearly should not be trusted with the safety of your own children. Even

Australia here. It's the same as you described. If you don't go with option X then you clearly should not be trusted with the safety of your own children. Even though option X changes depending on where you are and who you talk to and cultures and mindsets and as time progresses. "Do as I say or you're an idiot".