Able to provide doesn't mean rich. Women have a lot of choice and a husband that shares your love for volleyball probably isn't worth living paycheck to paychec

Able to provide doesn't mean rich. Women have a lot of choice and a husband that shares your love for volleyball probably isn't worth living paycheck to paycheck for the rest life vs a husband who hates volleyball but isn't chronically unemployed. Most of the surface level first date things young people think are important (hobbies, music even politics) aren't really at all in the scheme of things, your tastes will change and converge over time.