Could folks be optimizing for the wrong thing? I feel like there are plenty of 3 person startups where you can code your face off without red tape or human int

Could folks be optimizing for the wrong thing? I feel like there are plenty of 3 person startups where you can code your face off without red tape or human interaction. However, such gigs come with lower pay and worse work life balance. Personally, I made the choice to join big tech and collect a bigger check. The work can be slow and boring, but it's a conscious tradeoff I am making - money instead of fun.