I sympathize, but I look at (energy/emotional) capacity for life things like this as a resource, and there's such thing as poverty. But poverty is a state to be

I sympathize, but I look at (energy/emotional) capacity for life things like this as a resource, and there's such thing as poverty. But poverty is a state to be in, not a fixed fact of your life Climbing out of it means finding room around the edges, small things you do have the capacity to chip away at, and making yourself more and more room that you can then use to make more and more progress. The same goes for social stuff and for increasing your capacity in general