there are two voices in my head. the first is annoyed and frustrated. It says "Dave's proposal is just an irrelevant nit pick. Who cares if I make that change

there are two voices in my head. the first is annoyed and frustrated. It says "Dave's proposal is just an irrelevant nit pick. Who cares if I make that change or not? it won't affect the product in any meaningful way." the second is relaxed and easygoing. It says "Dave's proposal is just an irrelevant nit pick. Who cares if I make that change or not? it won't affect the product in any meaningful way." I listen to the second, accept the revision, and move on.