> I tried to join clubs and a maker space, but no time - I was working all day. Benefit of remote work is generally that its flexible and you can schedule time

> I tried to join clubs and a maker space, but no time - I was working all day. Benefit of remote work is generally that its flexible and you can schedule time in the day to get out and do things than otherwise the usual office grind would prevent. Your employer shouldn't care that you're out at noon but working at 7pm instead as long as the work is getting done. Sounds like you also have boundary issues where you're working all the time and killing yourself, quite voluntarily, for your job. You should consider just stopping doing that. You probably won't fall behind. If you have remote work and a rigid schedule like you're constantly oncall and dying because of the work, then find better and more human remote work.