This resonates with me. Once our household income hit a tipping point of being financially comfortable and secure we started making decisions on a different set

This resonates with me. Once our household income hit a tipping point of being financially comfortable and secure we started making decisions on a different set of criteria that optimized for dealing with less crap rather than maximizing income. In the last 6 months we didn't play by that criteria for one key decision and I can't wait to have that decision rewound even though it will cost us financially.