It is definitely achievable but the course of action would be different for you depending who you are. An unreliable sex fiend needs to make different changes t

It is definitely achievable but the course of action would be different for you depending who you are. An unreliable sex fiend needs to make different changes than an anxious shy person. Communication is important for everyone though, and a desire to fearlessly ask for (crucially, not force) the things you want. Knowing what you want requires self knowledge. Attaining that could take years. Remember that the easiest person to fool is yourself. Disclaimer this all comes from an American culture context in which people are hypothetically equal and individuals are usually expected to seek out a romantic match as opposed to, say,a family-approved one. Wish I could help more, best of luck