If your parents did something so impactful in your past that you have to live with the consequences of those events for the rest of your life, blame shouldn't e

If your parents did something so impactful in your past that you have to live with the consequences of those events for the rest of your life, blame shouldn't end at childhood. They too were agents in your life whether you desired it or not. It's not as though childhood and adolescent scars disappear upon turning 18. With that said, I agree with your general point on choice.