So, the social norms are that men are supposed to approach women to form relationships. But they can't even offer women free tutoring lessons... because other

So, the social norms are that men are supposed to approach women to form relationships. But they can't even offer women free tutoring lessons... because other women feel bad about it? Wat? Or women are offended, supposedly rightfully, solely because of the presence of these men (because person who asked the question said clearly they have done nothing wrong)? What the...? "Being distracted with insecurities" - men, on the other hand, have no such problems, yes? They willingly went to classes that are useless to them, in order to try to impress women. We live in a society, I guess...