There's a time and a place for vigorous debate in support of your position, and a time and a place for listening non-judgmentally with an open mind. Most things

There's a time and a place for vigorous debate in support of your position, and a time and a place for listening non-judgmentally with an open mind. Most things don't matter all that much and aren't worth fighting about. Some things are. Some people just like to fight at every opportunity, and others are too cowardly to fight when they should.