I was told, by someone I was dating, many years ago, that they thought that when they were speaking, I was thinking about what I was going to say next. I didn't

I was told, by someone I was dating, many years ago, that they thought that when they were speaking, I was thinking about what I was going to say next. I didn't fully understand that comment for more than a decade. This is a highly insightful take. Thanks. You nailed it. Learning to listen may not come naturally for some of us. It's a skill that requires practice and reinforcement.