I think you misunderstood me. The point I'm making is that you should redefine "winning a debate". Learning (and hopefully coming to a consensus) is exactly wh

I think you misunderstood me. The point I'm making is that you should redefine "winning a debate". Learning (and hopefully coming to a consensus) is exactly what winning should mean in your head. Just altogether abandon the notion that you win by convincing the other party you're right.