I chime well with the gist of this post. However, I think there is no win or lose in a debate. There is the sharing of perspective. The terminology of win/lose

I chime well with the gist of this post. However, I think there is no win or lose in a debate. There is the sharing of perspective. The terminology of win/lose is a symptom of Side-ism which I believe humanity suffers from. People feel like they need to be on a side of something, which leads to people who feel like they belong to the "other side" feel left out and ignored, and then the wheel turns and then the other side feels the same. Each side tells themselves the other side is stupid/evil/ignorant/etc. Instead they could have listened, compromised, come out of the assumption that neither side is wrong, and there should be a middle ground that works for all. But instead we're stuck with side-ism and an everlasting shift from one extreme to the other, while the majority in the middle get car sick from all that violent movements.