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>Effort is generally a pretty good proxy for respect My example above says otherwise. >can you explain what is a respectful attempt? One done in good faith.
by ImaCake 4y ago
>Effort is generally a pretty good proxy for respect
My example above says otherwise.
>can you explain what is a respectful attempt?
One done in good faith. Which is a slippery and vague concept. The ambiguity would explain the state of this comment section.
>taking a class and offering help to attractive girls isn't inherently disrespectful
I, and others, would consider the crucial point here to be "taking the class" because there will be attactive girls there, to be the disrespectful part. It also matters that this is being done on a mass scale, so that many suitors are disrupting the studies of many students at the same time.
- TheHappyOddish 4y ago> I, and others, would consider the crucial point here to be "taking the class" because there will be attactive girls there, to be the disrespectful part. Wait until you find out why men go to nightclubs...
- ZephyrBlu 4y agoGenerally. If men have to pursue women in "good faith" and not purposefully try to position themselves then I have news for you, 99% of men are 'disrespectful'.
- wilsonnb3 4y ago> I have news for you, 99% of men are 'disrespectful'. I don't think this will be news to most women
- ImaCake 4y agoThis isn't exclusive to straight men. I know plenty of people who have pursued relationships in good faith. EDIT: please cite a source for "99% of".
- notpachet 4y ago> If men have to pursue women in "good faith" and not purposefully try to position themselves then I have news for you, 99% of men are 'disrespectful'. Bing bing bing! We have a winner!
- sinity 4y ago> Bing bing bing! We have a winner! Also these who are pursuing are the only ones who have a shot at relationship, pretty much. So you are advising that _truly respectful_ males should just remove themselves from the gene pool. Great thinking.