What thickness pick do you use? I found thin picks very difficult to hold and moved to a .96mm Dunlop Delrin (the pink ones) standard and I found them easier to

What thickness pick do you use? I found thin picks very difficult to hold and moved to a .96mm Dunlop Delrin (the pink ones) standard and I found them easier to hold. There is more resistance from the strings but at least you can alternate pick. Here's me playing: https://youtu.be/gVIt8CVq7KQ?t=181 https://youtu.be/gVIt8CVq7KQ?t=181 But now you've made me question how I actually hold the pick - is it the first or second finger? I think it's first and thumb because my middle finger is stronger and calloused so more useful for tapping notes whilst the first finger grasps the pick during the tapping phase.