I don't think an answer will satisy you because anything can be bigotry. Or more aplty: the problem is we have a deep divide in what constitutes bigotry. A sig

I don't think an answer will satisy you because anything can be bigotry. Or more aplty: the problem is we have a deep divide in what constitutes bigotry. A significant portion of Americans oppose gay marriage, and a roughly equal portion would consider that bigotry. You cannot run a society that way. Im not necessarily trying to say you're wrong. Rather, I am trying to infuse some humility and shades of grey into a situation that I think you're portraying as black-and-white.