Material possessions are not part of you. Your actions are. If you lose money, you are not a different person. If you murder someone (after not previously havi

Material possessions are not part of you. Your actions are. If you lose money, you are not a different person. If you murder someone (after not previously having done so) you are. Thus, if you stop loving someone shen their financial state changed you did not love unconditionally. If their actions indicated that they were no longer the same person it's different.