Understood. I thank you for your response! I confess that when I was much younger, I used that same word in the same way. It was only after my coming to unders

Understood. I thank you for your response! I confess that when I was much younger, I used that same word in the same way. It was only after my coming to understand how my usage of that word had hurt other people that I came to where I am today. So, yours is a pain that I know well, and I trust that we are both better for this exchange. Thanks!