I don’t understand how that is a remotely comparable situation. The whole point here is the commenter is speculating to a huge degree about the situation and re

I don’t understand how that is a remotely comparable situation. The whole point here is the commenter is speculating to a huge degree about the situation and relation between the parent poster and his spouse. I don’t think there’s nearly the ambiguity in your scenario, nor does it deal with the emotionally tinged subject of human relationships.