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That’s not even the primary thrust of the article (which isn’t about how much work each person does but rather how tasks are delegated and by whom) but it’s als
by atdrummond 4y ago
That’s not even the primary thrust of the article (which isn’t about how much work each person does but rather how tasks are delegated and by whom) but it’s also not your place to suggest this. Beyond the fact you don’t know him or his wife and whether this is a serious or playful comment, the commenter didn’t ask for your advice on how to improve his household or his relationship with his wife.
Oy.
- themitigating 4y agoIf someone is about to wipe all their personal files would you offer unsolicited advice?
- atdrummond 4y agoI don’t understand how that is a remotely comparable situation. The whole point here is the commenter is speculating to a huge degree about the situation and relation between the parent poster and his spouse. I don’t think there’s nearly the ambiguity in your scenario, nor does it deal with the emotionally tinged subject of human relationships.
- groestl 4y agoI understand where you're coming from and just want to add as a thought, that we, as readers and third party, are also part of this public conversation. And it might be of value that somebody puts in the energy to pointing out a bias for us, that might easily be looked over and if unanswered, even serve to reproduce something by humorously normalizing it (just in general, I even think that GP is actually the minority who's aware of the problem and not in need of pointing it out)