> I have zero problems finding people to date […] I find there are a large number of people who actively want to date me > I haven't been able to figure out wh

> I have zero problems finding people to date […] I find there are a large number of people who actively want to date me > I haven't been able to figure out what is unique about my experience vs the majority of men. You are attractive. That's all there is to it. Hobbies are a red herring. You might not be a 10, but "just" an 8, but that still means you are two orders of magnitude more successful than a normie.