Kinda, you get a lot of benefits when the children are awake, but they always nap out of sync, so you never, ever get alone time with your partner for a couple

Kinda, you get a lot of benefits when the children are awake, but they always nap out of sync, so you never, ever get alone time with your partner for a couple of years until they both go to school, which is painful. When the older hits 4 years old, there are a lot of games you can start playing with them but the younger one might drastically limit that (for example, they destroy board games, while the 4 years one is very into them!) On the upside, they melt my heart when I see them playing together